tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8257322655470313160.post2724396707740427485..comments2023-10-29T00:20:41.388-07:00Comments on Fostering Reform: In Memory of My Son, Michael Benjamin Cohen, March 25, 1992-September, 2017Marie Cohenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00784520540877841295noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8257322655470313160.post-46949136851467636942020-01-16T00:29:42.918-08:002020-01-16T00:29:42.918-08:00creativity of writer is purely impressive. It has ...creativity of writer is purely impressive. It has touched to the level of expertise with his writing. Everything is up to the mark. Written perfectly and I can use such information for my coming assignment.<a href="http://wonderfulkidsdaycare.com/" rel="nofollow">Preschool Services near me</a>lettymineryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12870149955592569893noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8257322655470313160.post-22568151895420762072017-10-16T09:19:17.763-07:002017-10-16T09:19:17.763-07:00Dearest Marie: You shoul not take the death of Mik...Dearest Marie: You shoul not take the death of Mikey upon you. I can tell you for certain that even had he spoken to you every day, even if you had seen him every day, we just don't always realize something is so terribly wrong. It wasn't us (the parents) that realized our son had diabetes, it was a close friend of my son ( a13 year old boy) that kept asking him why he was peeing so much and drinking so much. The kids were 13. We (the parents) didn't know or realize there was something wrong. And when the distance between parents and children is so great, it is practically impossible to do much for them. Things happen, people of all ages, don't always realize their situation might actually be dangerous, I remember hopping over once to see a nephew (he was 19), he was in bed after eating fish he was alergic to, he was red from head to toes. His father had told him on the phone to go rest, he'll be O.K.<br />Had I not come in by chance he would not be alive today. I had to take him to the ER,and it took some time for him to recover. You are a special person, dedicated to the most needy kids. I hope you find some consolement in your work. But you must let go of any sort of guilt. <br />You write beutifully and I hope you continue writing and working for these kids.<br />Thinking of you with love<br />Yonit<br /><br />Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06000083834236460622noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8257322655470313160.post-4561945529028728832017-10-13T12:33:49.427-07:002017-10-13T12:33:49.427-07:00Thank you very much.Thank you very much.Marie Cohenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00784520540877841295noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8257322655470313160.post-78340514735258942902017-10-13T12:28:49.989-07:002017-10-13T12:28:49.989-07:00Thank you for sharing your story. It is important...Thank you for sharing your story. It is important and helpful.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02357475965021559842noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8257322655470313160.post-28757659349913807642017-10-11T08:01:36.775-07:002017-10-11T08:01:36.775-07:00Thank you for your kind words. I hope you never, n...Thank you for your kind words. I hope you never, never have to use me as an example. Marie Cohenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00784520540877841295noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8257322655470313160.post-20233468342882140712017-10-11T08:00:25.925-07:002017-10-11T08:00:25.925-07:00Thank you for your important comment. I only just ...Thank you for your important comment. I only just figured out how to reply. I am so glad you were able to save your son. We still don't know for sure that it was type 1 Diabetes that killed ours, though the evidence is very suggestive. If we find out it was after obtaining lab results from the coroner, I will join you in your activism. (Of course it is equally important whether or not my son died of it but somehow I want to draw some meaning from his death by working to ensure other families don't suffer as we are suffering.)Marie Cohenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00784520540877841295noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8257322655470313160.post-88427119169231353682017-10-07T16:02:19.636-07:002017-10-07T16:02:19.636-07:00I don't know if this helps in any way, coming ...I don't know if this helps in any way, coming from a complete stranger, who read this post by accident, possibly somehow because of being a former Berkeley grad student in math, and a father of three.<br /><br />First, as the previous comment also pointed out, it doesn't seem you would have had a real chance to save him. IF you had called him exactly in the short time period between when he started feeling something was wrong and when he went to coma, AND you could have convinced him over the phone that he should call or go to a doctor even if he didn't feel like doing that, THEN you could have helped. And really, calling your 25 year old son every day is probably not the easiest way to a normal relationship. "Preventable" looks relevant only in retrospect. If your mistakes didn't feel like mistakes while you were making them, they were probably not mistakes.<br /><br />Second, and this was really my very first thought when I read this post: writing about such a loss with such clarity, sticking to the main points, with love and determination for your son and the things you have to do in the world... This is an example I will have in my heart for the rest of my life (and although I would like to hope I will not have to use it ever, I'm sure I will).GP dadhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04066265721488332671noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8257322655470313160.post-17385342230035671032017-10-07T05:02:53.079-07:002017-10-07T05:02:53.079-07:00A FB friend shared this with me and, as I read it,...A FB friend shared this with me and, as I read it, my heart stopped! My 33 year old son came home to visit us this past Labor Day week-end. He lives on the West Coast and we are on the East Coast. We had seen him 4th of July week-end and were horrified that he had lost over 35 lbs since his last visit!<br /><br />He had not mentioned weight loss and did not think anything was wrong with his health. However, we knew something was very bad.<br /><br />We took him to our doctor who ordered blood tests. Sure enough, he had undiagnosed Diabetes 1! His blood numbers were 718 (normal is low 100's).<br /><br />He was sitting on an airplane back home when we received this information.<br />The doctor ordered him to go immediately to the hospital upon landing.<br />He would easily have slipped into a coma! <br /><br />If he had not come home, he would not be alive today. Diabetes 1 is not in his genetics and he ignored any symptoms. <br /><br />I can only imagine your pain and second guessing. However, this disease is a sneaky snake; you could not have known and you had no control. Even calling him daily would not have saved him. <br /><br />I am sure there are millions of stories just like your's. I will become an activist for everyone who has a similar story and for those who still can be saved.<br /><br />I send my deepest condolences . CT motherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04320815087242096150noreply@blogger.com